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A.     Find out what is expected of you.          B. Know what you expect from the others. C. Consider what resources you have to offer.    D. Be sure to offer help to other family members. E. Keep close contact with other family members. F. Work out exactly what your role is in the family. How to Become a Good Family Member Do you feel like you don’t fit in within your family, or maybe you do but want to know how you can be an even better member in the family? Then try some of these steps to see if you could be doing more to keep your home life happy! 61. ____________  How old are you? Do you live with your parents? Do you live alone? With a child? Do you have flatmates? If you have brothers and sisters (similar relatives), what’s your age in relation to theirs? Are you the baby, or the role-model? By asking yourself these questions and finding out the answers to them, you will get to know your position in your family and the part you should play in your family. 62. _____________ What do you have at your disposal (支配)----- money, materials, skills, knowledge and so on that you can use to help your family overall? Even if you are 10 years old with no financial income, you probably know how to wash dishes, put your own clothes in the laundry basket, and entertain your little brother/sister or at the very least avoid annoying your older brothers, sisters and parents too much. 63. ______________ If you are a parent, your children need a lot from you. If you are a child or teen, your parents need a fair amount too. What do the other people in your home need you to do? If your parents ask you to take the rubbish out, a good family member does so. Similarly, if you have a sister who needs your companion, an uncle who needs a bit of time alone every Saturday morning, or a struggling mother who could use your help with the rent or the dinner, a good family member will do what they can to relieve these burdens. 64. ______________ A big source of conflict between teens and their parents occurs when parents don’t know what their teenagers expect of them; a teenager may want more freedom and independence, and the ability to control their life to a greater degree. However, if they don’t communicate this with their parents, they are unable to negotiate(商议) for it. Younger children may feel the same, and parents or other family members may have expectations of younger family members that they haven’t conveyed, either. Make sure others in your family know that you’re willing to do a little give-and-take. 65. ______________ Being nice to the family you live with is only part of it; make an effort to learn more about family members, and make sure you call them from time to time, or send out the occasional email. Be available not just for your younger brothers and sisters, but your cousins, nieces and nephews too. Send out Christmas presents and cards, and make an effort to remember birthdays. Don’t let your goodness end at home. 答案：FCABE

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