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任务型阅读 If you only had one minute, or even just 20 seconds, to establish a good relationship with someone you've never met before, how would you do it? Here are three A's that you may find helpful. Awareness Getting along with others requires an awareness of three things-the environment, time, and the person you are meeting.  . The setting (e.g., a church versus a gym) decides how you communicate and even what you should wear. Time is also important. Do you have hours, minutes, or just seconds? The less you have, the more you need to think about what you will say and how you will say it. While an awareness of the setting and time is important, so is our awareness of others. Our immediate assessment of others, their mood and emotional state, contributes to getting along. Approaching someone when they are stressed may not be the best thing to do.  . Acceptance Since ancient times, the wise have said, "When in Rome, do as the Romans do." This is especially true in foreign countries.  . Change how you do things, how you dress, how you greet, how you talk, so that you will fit in. Don't resist and don't insist that you have things your way, or that you know better. It is, once more, not about you. It is about two things-the setting and fitting in with others. Respect the beliefs, norms, customs, and practices of those you wish to engage. Mirror those around you. It's the secret that wise men have used since ancient times.  . Approachable  . Smiling works to a point, but you must make welcoming eye contact. Your body language should say, "I am friendly and approachable." A. It is no different today B. You need to respond with a smile C. And it also applies in the other settings D. An awareness of the environment gives you a head start E. Instead, waiting just a half-hour can make all the difference F. If you want to be liked or fit in, you must be both accessible and friendly G. But we can't expect others to do for us what we should be doing for ourselves 答案：【1】D【2】E【3】C【4】A【5】F

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