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For many, it is a journey that
you will never give up, and the more you put in, the more you get out. While
this kind of attitude may work for some, the latest scientific research
suggests that it can also go wrong for many people.
Mauss
has shown that seeking happiness can also increase feelings of loneliness and
disconnection, perhaps because it causes you to focus your attention on
yourself and your own feelings rather than appreciating the people around you.
"Self-focus might make me engage with other people less, and I might judge
other people more negatively if I think they 'mess' with my happiness,
"Mauss added.
These
effects don't end there. Maglio at the University of, Toronto found another way
that the conscious happiness-seeking may have the opposite effect: By leading
us to feel that time is slipping away. Happiness comes from something pleasant
that I can enjoy right now, to something burdensome(难以承担的)that I have to keep working at over and over and
over, " Maglio says.
"If you are constantly reminded of your friend enjoying at this
beautiful location or at that delicious dinner, I think that might serve as a
reminder that other people are happier than you-and kick-start(强力启动)that goal of happiness again. "
Mauss, meanwhile, points out that a lot of research has found that
people who take a more "accepting" altitude to bad feelings-rather
than constantly trying to fight them as the enemy--actually end up more
satisfied with their life over the long-term. When you are trying to be happy,
you may become judgmental and disapproving of bad things in your life. . .
"For these reasons, she advises people to have a more stoic(苦修的)attitude to life's ups and downs, in which you
accept bad feelings as events which last only a short time rather than trying
to remove them entirely.
Happiness really is like a shy animal. And once you stop chasing it, you
might just find that it appears naturally of its own accord.
(1)
What does "it" in Paragraph I refer to?
A . Seeking happiness.
B . Earning money.
C . Finding jobs.
D . Gaining success.
(2)
Why may happiness-seeking make people feel lonely?
A . They cannot ask help from others.
B . They have something important to do.
C . They feel other people are happier.
D . They care too much about themselves.
(3)
What kind of people may feel less happy according to Maglio?
A . Feeling others happier and seeking the same happiness.
B . Having less time to seek happiness.
C . Having heavy work to do.
D . Making less money.
(4)
How do we feel happy according to Mauss?
A . Make more money to enjoy life.
B . Forget those happier than you.
C . Accept life as it is and contain it.
D . Be a kind and helpful person.
答案: A
D
A
C