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Everybody
gets angry, but out-of-control anger isn't good for you or those around you. So
here are five simple strategies to help you learn how to manage your anger:
•
Relax. Breathe deeply, from your stomach. Repeat it to yourself and visualize a relaxing
time and experience.
•
Change the way you think. When you're angry, your thinking can get exaggerated
(夸大的). For instance, instead of
telling yourself, "Oh, it's terrible! Everything's ruined," tell
yourself, "It's understandable that I'm upset about it, but it's not the
end of the world."
•
Statements like "This never works."
or "You're always forgetting things." will make you feel your anger
is justified (情有可原的) and there's no way to
solve the problem. They might upset people who might be willing to work with
you on a solution.
•
Have a better communication. Angry people tend to jump to conclusions. If you
are in a heated discussion, slow down. And take your time before answering. Instead
of saying the first thing that comes into your head, think carefully about what
you want to say.
•
Use humor. Psychologists say that highly angry people tend to think "things
ought to go my way!" "Silly humor" can help you get a more
balanced perspective. So, when you feel that anger coming the next time,
picture yourself as a king or queen, walking around, admired by everybody, and
getting your own way in every situation. The more detail you can get into your
imaginary scenes, the more likely it is to put a smile on your face.
A. Be careful with words like
"never" or "always".
B. Listen carefully to what
the other person is saying.
C. Try replacing these
thoughts with more reasonable ones.
D. Avoid using these
strategies when you're in a tense situation.
E. Then slowly repeat a calm
word or phrase such as "take it easy".
F. Try changing the topics so
your talks won't turn into arguments.
G. That will help you realize
that the things you're angry about are really not very important.
答案:【1】E【2】C【3】A【4】B【5】G