任务型阅读
Trying
to find common topics with someone you've never met before and may never meet
again, is certainly awkward. Like it or not, your future holds many conversations
with strangers that must start somewhere. Usually, they begin with small talk. .
An
icebreaker that works in every situation
There's
one icebreaker question that'll work every single time: Tell me about yourself.
The four words are much more effective than the question "So what do you
do?" because you don't make any assumptions (假设) about the other
person. . It allows you to start a
conversation without the fear that you're going to make someone uncomfortable. Raising
a broad question lets people lead you to who they are.
Stay
curious
,
your next move is equally important. You have to really listen to how the other
person responds and care what they have to say. Talk about what they're
interested in. Build on it. Ask them more questions about that thing. . You
need to hear what the other person has to say. Bringing enthusiasm to the
conversation will go a long way.
How
to exit gracefully
Sometimes
you just run out of things to talk about. One last trick for you. Be honest. Say
you've got to go to the bar, to the bathroom, to say hello to your friend
across the room. Then go. . But do you really want to be
stuck talking to someone when you have nothing to talk about? Abandoning one
bad conversation frees you up to start another with someone new. It starts
with, "So Bob, tell me about yourself. "
A. Sure, it might feel rude
B. Here's how to do small
talk right
C. Don't quickly exit the
conversation
D. After you get past the
breaking of ice
E. Even if he's excited about
a certain topic
F. A good conversation
depends heavily on curiosity
G. The four words are more
likely to lead to a truly interesting conversation
答案:【1】B【2】G【3】D【4】F【5】A