Farah was sitting in the kitchen going over the party list with her mother.The exams were over and Farah wanted to invite her friends for a party.
“Farah,aren’t you going to invite Hafsa?”her mother asked.Hafsa had been her best friend since childhood.
“Mother,you know I am now a part of Purple Girls Club and we have some rules about people we can be friends with,”Farah answered.
“Really?And what are the rules?”her mother asked.
“Well,only very pretty girls can be part of our group.And Hafsa is so...you know...dark.”
“I cannot believe it,”her mother said angrily.
As Farah left the kitchen,her father called her from the living room.
Farah went to her father and paled when she saw the exam report in his hands.“Farah,what has happened to your grades?You have failed in Mathematics,”her father said.
Farah had no answer.The truth was that the activities of Purple Girls Club left her with very little time for studies.
“Farah,it says that you can take part in supplementary exams(补考).If your grades don’t improve then,I’ll cancel(取消) your trip to Spain.”
Farah went to her room and called Gina,the leader of Purple Girls Club, “Gina,can you help me to complete my notes before the exams?”
Gina laughed.“Exams?Who cares about exams?”
One by one,she called her friends in the club but no one seemed to care or wanted to help.
Farah knew Hafsa would help her.Farah also knew Hafsa had been hurt by her,but Hafsa said,“If you need any help,just let me know.We can study together till your exams.”
Next Monday,as two friends entered the school together,Gina called out.
“Farah,you know our rules.You cannot be friends with those who do not belong to our club.”
“Gina,I have a new rule about friendship,”Farah replied.
Now, I've talked much about education. I've talked about teachers' responsibility for inspiring students and pushing you to learn. I've talked about your parents' responsibility for making sure you stay on track, and you get your homework done, and don't spend every waking hour in front of the TV .I've talked a lot about your government's responsibility for setting high standards.
But at the end of the day, we can have the most dedicated teachers, the most supportive parents, the best schools in the world-and none of it will make a difference, none of it will matter unless all of you fulfill your responsibilities, unless you show up to those schools, unless you pay attention to those teachers, unless you listen to your parents and grandparents and other adults and put in the hard work it takes to succeed. That's what I want to focus on today: the responsibility each of you has for your education.
I want to start with the responsibility you have to yourself. Every single one of you has something that you're good at. Every single one of you has something to offer. And you have a responsibility to yourself to discover what that is. That's the opportunity an education can provide.
And no matter what you want to do with your life, I guarantee that you'll need an education to do it. You want to be a doctor, or a teacher, or a police officer? You want to be a nurse or an architect, a lawyer or a member of our military? You're going to need a good education for every single one of those careers. You cannot drop out of school and just drop into a good job. You've got to train for it and work for it and learn for it.
That's okay. Some of the most successful people in the world are the ones who've had the most failures. J.K. Rowling's who wrote Harry Potter- her first Harry Potter book was rejected 12 times before it was finally published. Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team. He lost hundreds of games and missed thousands of shots during his career. But he once said, “I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that's why I succeed.”
And even when you're struggling, even when you're discouraged, and you feel like other people have given up on you, don't ever give up on yourself, because when you give up on yourself, you give up on your country.
—I've made up my mind(去最需要我的地方).